Everyone is RIGHT

Today, I got an opportunity to attend a writing workshop, by Christian Rechenmacher (an artist from Austria), that was coordinated by our dear Prof. Christina Dhanasekaran. It was a wonderful experience. The artist provided great insightful thoughts on the way of writing.

Apart from the workshop, I was particularly awestruck by the way the artist provided space for everyone to ask questions. She did not discourage anyone. Every question was considered valid. She answered each and every question very patiently. If the opinion shared by a student was good, she appreciated them.


My mind drifted back to the words of one of my professors who taught me during the fifth semester in college. 

" Everyone is right at some point or the other. So do not think that you are right always." These words always echo in my mind whenever I disagree with people over something. 

At times, people tend to think that they are always right and they do not consider the opinion of the other person. They forget the fact that the other person also has the right to share their opinions. 

Being a good listener and appreciating people are two important traits that must be instilled in the mind of every individual. This can help us to avoid misunderstandings and ego clashes.

I am really glad and happy that I could realise the importance of the words of my professor.










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