Random thoughts at Noon

 In relationships—whether they’re friendships, family bonds, or something more—communication and empathy are everything. Yet, so often, people get caught up in blame, ego, and emotional games, forgetting the simple truth: everyone just wants to feel heard and understood.

Blaming situations is never a solution to anything. When a person tells you they’re hurt, they expect understanding—not a lengthy essay about you were hurt by them in the past. Shifting blame to make the other person feel guilty just to feel better about yourself is unfair. What kind of attitude is that?

Everyone has their own struggles in life, and everyone deserves to be happy. If you don’t have a history with someone, you don’t have the right to judge their actions. It’s their life, their choice. You can’t just hate someone without a reason and throw around derogatory comments ( don’t think that it's cool) —that only makes you look like the meanest person in the world. 

Confrontation and healing need to come from both sides, not just one. If you’ve tried to mend things multiple times and your efforts keep going in vain, it’s okay to give up. Everyone deserves the best. No one deserves to be with someone who drains them emotionally.

At the end of the day, it's not about who tried harder or who hurt whom more—it's about whether both people truly cared enough to listen, understand, and grow together. If that effort only comes from one side, it becomes draining, not healing. Sometimes, walking away isn’t weakness—it’s choosing peace over pain. It’s realizing your worth and refusing to settle for one-sided love. 

Everyone deserves a connection that feels safe, mutual, and uplifting. 

And sometimes, letting go is the first step towards finding that.